kanata67 Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 well folk... I know this is not the correct forum and I plan on cutting and pasting this into my trade post as an explanation as to why I am pulling out. All trades/sales are on indefinate hold with kl884347 being the only exception as he paid so I must loot from my personal collection when possible... Anyways... those who know me know I might be a hippie but I have a good heart and try to live by the golden rule... I told my wife if she ever smokes crack again that I would leave her... she smoked crack again... My responce... after spitting in her face and destroying the livingroom [no fish were hurt though that took much restraint and a tv didn't fair so well - but I didn't raise a hand towards her], was " You made your choice!" I will try to loot what I can from the household when I can but all trades/sales are on indefinate hold... even the boxed up stuff [sorry rewooh and pfunk]. At this point in time I care not about pretty much everything. All I grabbed as I left the house was my work bag, estwing tools, passport and birth certificate, and the title to the car I just bought. My collection, my camaro, my soul, are all still there. YYou guys have been a pleasure in a life full of pain... I thank all of you who have made MW such a posative experience... I hope to see you all again... the deeper sorrow cleaves into your soul... the greater it's capacity to contain joy If it doesn't kill you it makes you stronger. I don't have time for crackheads. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VF-19 Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Wow... I don't know what to say... I suppose the only thing I could say is I'm sorry to hear what happened between you and your wife. Anyways, I'm glad you didn't strike her, but you didn't have to wreck some stuff to vent your anger. While it is better to trash stuff than your wife, still that wasn't very mature of you (god I sound like my mother). In anycase, I hope you get through this alright, and you're able to continue on with your life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Just Gundam Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Here's hoping things work out fine for you, take care! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nemesis120 Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Good luck with all this. And you took the car title was definitely a good move. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UN Spacy Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Hope to see you post sooner than later kanata67. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coota0 Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Good Luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Effect Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 I'm sorry to here about this. I guess the only thing I can say is good luck and I hope you get through this. Good luck once again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Father Jack Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 God speed bud, God speed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VF-1Asupervalk Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 wow...im shocked but be safe till the end, and hpe all things work out for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hurricane29 Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Damn Kanata, I hope everything works out for the better good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sumdumgai Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Hope everything works out Kanata. I'm sure I speak for everyone when I say: We wish you the best of luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sephiroth Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 (edited) I'm really sorry about your situation, I realize that it must be very painful for you right now. A few years ago, I was with a girl, Heather, whom I considered to be one of the few people in my life that I can honestly say I loved with all my heart, but she literally broke me when she chose drugs over me. After working so hard and long to get her clean and on the right track, she went right back to it when she received a phone call from the ex-boyfriend that got her on drugs in the first place. It never really stops hurting, but people make their choices and have to stick with them. She made hers, and I made mine. I came to the know exactly what people meant when they said, "You can't save everyone." I haven't spoken to or seen Heather in over 4 years. I hear about her and how's she's doing every now and then when I visit home. Last I heard, she's stuck working as a waitress trying to support three kids (each with a different father) and I really do think that is the life she wanted...like one of those people who are only happy or comfortable when their lives are chaotic and misearble. As for me, I graduated from college, accepted a commision as an officer in the USAF and married a good woman...I'm doing ok. Life will take you down some mysterious paths...just have faith that everything will work out for the best and trust that you'll be ok. As for your wife, I hope she gets the help that she needs. I asked Heather once what she was most scared of...she said, "crackheads"...because they will steal from and hurt those they love most just to get more crack...they just don't care anymore. Edited October 26, 2003 by Sephiroth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mechamaniac Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Sorry to hear about that Kanata, I feel for you, but not for her, sorry... I have zero tolerance for drug addicts, my cousin is a long time addict that cannot get her crap together even to give a good life to her children. All addicts do is destroy the lives of those close to them while they destroy themselves. I hope she can pull herself out of it, but if not, you are better off away from her. On a lighter note, if you need to assemble a crack team of toy rescuing commandoes, I stand ready for a midnight raid, just have to break out my black PJ's and entry gear again. . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skull Leader Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Take care of yourself man, we're not going anywhere anytime soon. I was in a similar situation about 7 years ago, I know exactly how you feel..... Do what you gotta do and come back to us when you can! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheFrenchOne Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Man, i am so sorry for you Sincerely good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angel's Fury Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Godspeed Kanata. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr March Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 If I can do one thing as a member of this board that might help you through this difficult situation, then take this with you... You made the right choice. Never doubt it. Best of luck to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chowser Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Good luck my friend, we are here if you need us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lightning Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 good luck man, hope it all works out for u. P.S. even though this might seem a little crazy...dont forget to go back and get that camaro!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anubis Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Good luck to you, man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheLoneWolf Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 I'm sorry to hear what happened. Best of luck sorting this mess out and hope to see you back here soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blaine23 Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Sorry to hear about that, Kanata. I understand how it is to love someone with a drug addiction - I've had years of it with my only brother. Good luck and try to think positive about the future. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kl884347 Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Hey, Take care, and very sorry to hear about what's going on. Don't sweat my stuff, really. In life there are a lot of things more important than Macross (Wow, did I just say that??) Seriously, my prayers are with you bud. Sincerely, Kyu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robokochan Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Sorry to hear about all of this. I hope everything works out for you. If you need anything don't hesitate to ask. (Yes I know I am in Japan but.....). Like everyone said earlier you made the right choice. Take care my friend. Hope to see you soon! Rob MN Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weaseldancer Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Good luck. I hope everything works out for you. Take care and know that all of us here are thinking about you and sending whatever good karma your way we can. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
007-vf1 Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 You made the right choice. Never doubt it. If you have tried to remediate the situation with her more than once that is... Leaving/stopping a drug addiction problems is not an easy task for either party. We'll be anxiously waiting for your return because after the storm, comes the calm and you can always confort on long lasting friends here in the forums. Good luck kanata Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beware of Blast Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Take good care of yourself kanata67. May everyone directly involved, get good closure to this unfortunate life episode. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wabbit Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Good luck katana. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldenboy_forever Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Hey man sorry to hear what happened But I gotta tell you something. I don't think you should leave the forum. You'll be needing your friends most at a time like this. Puck it tell your story, drink your heart out and smile. You have no regrets, you tried your best. I know this is one pucked up exprience. Like goldenboy would say "This is very educating". Take care man only time will make the pain go away. From Rich Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commander McBride Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Good luck, man. I know this kind of stuff sucks, I had to break up with two two friends just days ago because they turned out to be both doing and dealing. And it led to the loss of my own car. Here's hoping you fare better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VF-19 Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Hey man sorry to hear what happened But I gotta tell you something. I don't think you should leave the forum. You'll be needing your friends most at a time like this. Puck it tell your story, drink your heart out and smile. You have no regrets, you tried your best. I know this is one pucked up exprience. Like goldenboy would say "This is very educating". Take care man only time will make the pain go away.From Rich I don't think he's leaving the forum... I think its because he won't have much access to a computer in the coming times. I'm sure he'll be back someday. Anyways, once again, my apologies for the awful experience. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mechafan Posted October 27, 2003 Share Posted October 27, 2003 I hope you make out well and get get her into a program so y'all can be one again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commander McBride Posted October 27, 2003 Share Posted October 27, 2003 I hope you make out well and get get her into a program so y'all can be one again. Trust me, man, there's not really anything he can do. The only answer is to get out of there and put it far behind him, depressing though it may be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guppy Posted October 27, 2003 Share Posted October 27, 2003 Good luck man.. but make sure you don't leave MW - you've got a lot of friends here! Now go back and rescue your collection. All those valks will make you feel better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jwinges Posted October 27, 2003 Share Posted October 27, 2003 Our prayers are with you my friend. Good luck. I'm sure we'll talk again soon. Jim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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