UN Spacy Posted July 21, 2004 Share Posted July 21, 2004 I'm terribly sorry to hear about that, my deepest condolences..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lt. Adamovic Posted July 21, 2004 Share Posted July 21, 2004 my ...hell how does one say this...............you have my condolences and my support...I do not know you but I feel your pain......................your daughter and you are essential to one other don't ever forget that and never loose faith man, never Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jin_Kune_Do Posted July 21, 2004 Share Posted July 21, 2004 My condonlences -Jin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Myersjessee Posted July 21, 2004 Share Posted July 21, 2004 My deepest sympathies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robokochan Posted July 21, 2004 Share Posted July 21, 2004 My condolences. Rob Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guppy Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 I got a shock when I read your post.. best wishes for the future, Greg. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_vandermeer Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 Take care of yourself and your daughter. Take things day by day. You have my condolences and deepest sympathies... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mechatek Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 My sympathies are with you and your daughter. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wwwmwww Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 Greg, I don't think you know me but I'm so saddened by your news. Try to be strong for your daughter. She still needs you. If there is any help I can offer please PM me. There is a whole in my heart too that has been there for 20 years and I can say this. Even though a part of you has now died a part of her is still alive in you and your daughter. Hold on to that love and in time it will help you put the pieces back together. Please be strong and when you are weak lean on your friends, Carl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scand Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 My condolences. May god be with you and your family. I'll be keeping you in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Graham Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 My condolences. Try to be strong for your daughter. Graham Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sephiroth Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 I offer my sincerest condolences. You and your daughter are in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pfunk Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 Oh My, I am so sorry to hear that horrible news, Greg, Please be strong, you and your daughter are in My and My families prayers. God Bless Pat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DescipleMKII Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 Im truly sorry for your loss...I have lost loved ones in the past as well. I will pray for you and your daughter. She is a lucky girl to have someone as strong as you to stay here and do what is right for her and her future and that is worth so much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
connor99 Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 My deepest condolences. Me and mine will be praying for you and yours. GOD bless. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jawjaw Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 That's truly horrible. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. I will also put you and your family in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zerocool Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 My condolences Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GreenGuy42 Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 My condolences... You'll be in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skull Hunter Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 My deepest sympathy. I cannot imagine anything like that happening to my loved ones. I am glad that you are still here and commend you for being a man and coping with it and taking care of your daughter. Good luck with everything, and let the healing begin. God Speed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sebastian Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 My wife and son are my whole life. I cant inmagine your suffering, but your girl needs your strength. Anytime this "virtual" MW friends are here for you. My condolences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mcpaz Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 Hi Greg, just remember that you're not alone. You've got your daughter, friends and us. And please remember: every single breathe, every single smile of your daughter worths a life. Believe me, I know it. Don't EVER surrender. NEVER. Do it for them: for your daughter, and for your wife. Make her be proud of you, man. Manu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolly Rogers Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 You have my sympathies. Please be strong and cherish your wife's memory by raising your girl the best you can. Let us know if you need any help from us. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geecie30 Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 (edited) I was trying to complete a deal with Greg(Glane)and was surprised he was not posting,in the recent, which was unseemly,since I usually see his posts regularly. He, yesterday informed me of the loss and tears came to my eyes because I understand.It brought me back to the feelingI felt before.Its not a movie.I was,at one time long ago, so sensitve about mortality and didn't like to see anyone getting hurt or killed for alongtime during a part in my life. My brother passed untimely .He was only 18 he was like a baby to me,he was my baby brother.He drowned in 1991.The thought of him before he passed asking for help haunted me for 3 years.All of the 90's was a blur for me .I think of the 90's as "the healing process".90's went away too fast ,but so slow also? I should have went to counseling,I really wasn't prepared for the loss,nor in retrospect, was I equipt to deal with the pressure.The shock,or grieving as it were caused me to gloss over it and try to protect myself by forgetting.My memory wasn't too great.My relationships with people also waned.I recomend getting some help with tangible people(that is get out and talk to people in your situation,such as a grief group).Now its been 13 years since and time has slipped away.I think my route to healing was the long road. Everyone has thier own tolorances,but no one is exempt from pain.We are not supermen ,Iam not superman.So get help when or if this happens to you, sooner than later.Please ,note that you have more at stake, your baby girl she will need you the next thirteen years and beyond and if you have nothing left to offer yourself you cant be relied on by others.I have treaded this ground.At first ,I was numb and stunted and when the clouds started to part I started move again.I hope you have support.If you need a friend we can talk ,I will call you . I needed hope,I have reminded myself that we are energy and that we will never die.Everything we hold dear will come together again, it has no choice.We just cant easily fathom the unseen or aquire the possibilities with a clenched fist. My brothers presence/spirit will never dissapear, but is free now.When will we see them?I think real soon .As I have no controll, I must open up to the way ,I also, will see him when Iam free.Life is gods gift. we must maximize our light.Savour our gift .Cherish the gifts that are remaining. I probably mentioned too much but I feel so compelled.I am one of those who died inside for a while. Edited July 22, 2004 by geecie30 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geecie30 Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 (edited) Tracy died soon after a long fought civil war, just after I'd wiped away her last tear I guess she's better off than she was before, A whole lot better off than the fools she left here I used 2 cry 4 Tracy because she was my only friend Those kind of cars don't pass u every day I used 2 cry 4 Tracy because I wanted to see her again, But sometimes sometimes life ain't always the way... Sometimes it snows in April Sometimes I feel so bad, so bad Sometimes I wish life was never ending, and all good things, they say, never last Springtime was always my favorite time of year, A time 4 lovers holding hands in the rain Now springtime only reminds me of Tracy's tears Always cry 4 love, never cry 4 pain SHe used 2 say so strong unafraid to die Unafraid of the death that left me hypnotized No, staring at her picture I realized No one could cry the way my Tracy cried Sometimes it snows in April Sometimes I feel so bad Sometimes, sometimes I wish that life was never ending, And all good things, they say, never last I often dream of heaven and I know that Tracy's there I know that she has found another friend Maybe she's found the answer 2 all the April snow Maybe one day I'll see my Tracy again Sometimes it snows in April Sometimes I feel so bad, so bad Sometimes I wish that life was never ending, But all good things, they say, never last All good things that say, never last And love, it isn't love until it's past Edited July 22, 2004 by geecie30 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mobyrz Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 Greg, My sincerest condolences through these hard times. Be strong for your daughter, raise her well. You have the MW community's thoughts and prayers with you. -Mubbin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boinger Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 My condoelences to you and your daughter. Talking about what's going on with friends and family helps. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sumdumgai Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 You have my condolences. Hang in there and be there for your daughter. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Godzilla Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 I don't know what you are going thru nor do I comprehend what you are going thru but my condolences to you and your daughter. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lonely Soldier Boy Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 (edited) I just found out. I'm so sorry. We're all with you on this. Thanks for let us know. Take it easy. -Lucas- Edited July 22, 2004 by Lonely Soldier Boy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
easnoddy Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 That's terrible. Extremely sorry to hear it. Be strong. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
g3173 Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 Dear Greg, Man i'm really sorry to hear that this tragic event has occured! Just remember that your daughter needs you so stay strong. I know it's hard to keep your faith at times like this but that's all we really have. I truly hope the best for you and your family and offer my prayers and my deepest sympathy. We are all here to support you so make sure to stay connected to your friends and loved ones. Regards, Gene Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cambodian tire Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 My deepest condolences bud, maybe some MW'rs could send send out the occasional "thoughts with you" incase gregs lurkin' but dosen't feel like chattin' Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glane21 Posted July 23, 2004 Author Share Posted July 23, 2004 O, Greg, I'm so sorry.Our local otaku leader here (owner of Anime Cafe) in WA just lost his wife too, only 30 yrs old, from an unforseen brain anurism, while he was deployed in Iraq as a reserve. Hadn't seen her in 6 months, and was called back just so he could do the funeral. Never saw it coming. His gusto is gone now too, so he's letting go of his business of 15 years and re-enlisting full time cause he has nothing left for him here. I know what you mean about if it weren't for your child you'd be gone a long time ago. (I dare not ever tell her, but I too would have been gone a long time ago had my daughter not depended on me). I'm there with you on that. But in time you will find more reason to live again. I know what it's like to lose a loved one; it's almost as if your entire world as you've known it has disappeared, and in a way, a part of you on the inside dies with her, and it takes time to find a way to deal with the shock and eventually rebuild around that empty spot inside. You never can quite fill it back up the same, but you will be able to start again in a different way, a different life. I've been away from MW for 2 years for similar reasons, and I can understand how you too will have to disconnect from your usual interests and past times. Just remember to count on the people that are there for you when you come back, not just here, but in real life too. You'll need your friends and family now more than ever, and you will discover who your true friends and loved ones are, maybe even discover some you never knew you had. You'll be alright. I'm so sorry for your loss, Greg. You've always been one of my favourite artists and MW friends, and I'm sure you can take comfort that many here do see you as a standup guy and wish you the best. My prayers are with you and your family. Please take care of yourself. Sincerely, -Atto Madrid (aka Rosario) Rosario and everyone, Thank you for your posts. Everything Rosario said was exactly true. My wife had just turned 30 as well. Her pregnancy was difficult because she was diabetic. Things were just coming to normal with our baby, but Heather was going to need a kidney transplant due to the stress on her body from the pregnancy. But she never complained. If you've ever seen the movie Steel Magnolias, it's the same scenario. Her brother was going to give her one of his. She was driving home from a blood test when the accident happened. That is what breaks my heart the most is that she won't get to see her little girl, whom she sacrificed so much for, grow up. She was the kindest, strongest woman I have ever known. I knew I had a great woman but I never truly appreciated that until now. Greg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueMax Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 I'm very sorry to hear this...... Please be strong for your little girl. I will keep your family in prayer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xMaDxPeNgUiNx Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 Stay strong for you and your own. Condolences Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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